"You can always contact your unified real self in every issue of your life...simply, ask,'What is the truth in the matter?' in each case. The moment an individual is more interested in the truth than on proving himself right, he comes into contact with the Divine Principle of transcendant, unified truth. If the desire to be in truth is genuine, the inspiration must come forth."

----Pathwork Guide Lecture #143 Unity and Duality

It takes courage to reliquish our hold on winning or being right, but once we open ourselves to possibilities beyond our current grasp, there is a release of tension, a freeing up of energy flow. It is the transcending of the ego and opening to a wider truth that brings an ease to life. I believe we are graced the moment we let the ego go, however briefly.